It is a truth universally acknowledged, that a single woman in possession of just about anything, must be in want of a husband. Please indulge me while I channel my inner Jane Austen, won’t you? My opening line is, of course, inspired by one of Austen’s most famous opening lines…

What is a life’s work? I found one answer to this question on a wall in Silicon Valley a few years ago: You only get a few shots at building your life’s work — the kind of work that makes a difference, that can’t happen without you. The quote evoked a sense of meaning that…

Like everyone else, I watched The Social Dilemma recently. I felt disturbed as well, but more so by the documentary’s framing of the issues than by the dystopian state of the world it so comprehensively portrays. …

I wish I could offer you a hug. I’m sharing my own story of loneliness instead, because it has a happy ending. And because I did not know that there could be a happy ending, or even what it would look like. This “happy ending” isn’t an achievement of some…

Psychedelic explorer Ram Dass and Objectivist philosopher Ayn Rand met each other on the dating app Hinge. A few pleasantries later, they decided to go ahead and meet in person for an afternoon stroll. It was a gorgeous fall afternoon when they met, sunny but cool. …

I often meet people who tell me, implicitly or explicitly, that they have lost hope — hope of ever getting out of a pattern of bad relationships, hope of ever finding a partner, hope of ever feeling whole or vibrant again. Or that they simply find it dangerous to hope…

Letting go is especially difficult when you experience romantic heartbreak. Seemingly overnight there are new uncertainties, new voids in your life to fill, and difficult emotions and memories to boot. Anxieties and fears can pile on mercilessly. And yet, it’s precisely at such times that letting go can help you…

That got your attention, didn’t it? Well, for the past few years, I’ve had a pretty committed guy in my life. Here he is, pictured with me. I lovingly call him “Panda”. (I know, very imaginative.) Now that I’ve set the stage, you know this isn’t going to be the…

When your heart breaks, you might feel you’re better off never weathering the uncertainties of love or bearing that kind of pain again. So you close off, numb your feelings, and build a protective shell around your heart. But that is a robot-like existence, dear reader, one where “you shall…